Virgo-Leo
In general, Virgo natives are not attracted to Leo subjects. There may well be an intial attraction on the part of Leo, probably due to an unfilled need for constant flattery, which caused the Leo individual in question a rare moment of inferiority. Virgo may have viewed the crestfallen expression of Leo as that of a soul in trouble and since Virgo is a helpful Sign, he or she would have been most eager to provide aid, not expecting to be met with a totally different personality once Leo had regained self-confidence. The Virgo partner will be thrifty with money, whereas Leo is much more generous and the differences here regarding finances will include a vast array of things…everything from planning a budget to putting money away for the future. Leo tends to live for the moment while Virgo exists in the mental world of the future. Thus, these two differing opinions is sure to be the cause of much tension. Critical Virgo is likely to make cutting remarks which will deeply wound the Leo partner…particularly if the Virgo mate is displeased regarding some type of extravagence on the part of Leo. Unlike Leo, Virgo subjects consider recreational pursuits to be a waste of time…time which could be much better spent in reviewing plans for the future…but Leo natives would rather be engaging in fun activities (hosting a party or going out with friends, for example). Thus, the attitude of both partners in this respect will go far in breaking up the relationship. Here, the fiery physical intimacy of Leo will fail to be matched by Virgo, since Virgo is rather easily satisfied and harbors no desire for games or fantasies. In essence, this pairing will generally prove to be a rather shaky union at best. Initially, this couple may overlook common interests and believe they have nothing to gain from one another. Yet, this is a relationship that could evolve over time, with each partner gradually understanding and appreciating the other. Leo is by nature extroverted, dominant and charismatic, but often cursed with a very short fuse. Virgo is inherently studious and withdrawn, blessed with far more versatility than Leo. Although there are obvious differences, this pair can sometimes make for a rather wonderful love match, provided each mate can warm to the other’s unfamiliar style. In the early days of this union, Leo and Virgo may see nothing but faults in the other’s personality. Leo will probably appear tyrannical and Virgo may seem too judgmental. However, when they can stop looking solely at one another’s flaws, they could begin to discover each other’s positive attributes…and with that discovery will come a certain attraction. Leo can show Virgo the benefits of fun and good times, introducing a spontaneity that is often missing from the lives of those governed by Virgo. In return, Virgo will teach Leo the virtue of patience and the ability to focus intellectual energy. On occasion, Leo may feel that his or her Virgo partner is watching with too keen of an eye, but has the talent to inspire the Virgo mate to ease up a little. There will undoubtedly be times when Virgo considers Leo to be selfish and foreboding but if the love is there, each can be taught sensitivity to the needs of the other. Virgo is ruled by the planet Mercury and Leo is ruled by the Sun. The Sun emanates light and heat, waiting for others to gather around so the gifts of their presence can be accepted. However, Virgo reaches out to others and works through all the details prior to committing to a determined goal. Both Signs need to take the time to see the value of the other’s approach. Leo has the ability to teach Virgo how to be less critical and more spontaneous, whereas Leo can gain stability from Virgo’s even keel. Virgo is governed by the element of Earth while Leo is governed by the element of Fire. Leo natives begin new projects without stopping to consider their motivation. Virgo adopts a more practical approach. Those ruled by Virgo are concerned with the outcome of their efforts…Leo individuals simply pursue what they want with no thought for the consequences. Virgo is Mutable in quality and Leo is Fixed. Virgo subjects like to spend time working hard and spreading themselves over many different areas. Conversely, Leo enjoys taking charge and/or managing a project where roles can be assigned to other participants. Still, the absence of “who’s who” in this relationship will likely help these two to avoid unpleasant character evaluations. Perhaps the best aspect of a Virgo/Leo match is their effectiveness as a couple, both metaphorically and literally. Leo commands attention and respect by showing others what this pair is made of socially and by following through on new ideas motivated only by way of fun and excitement. Virgo will work very hard behind the scenes, scheduling appointments and following up on details in which the Leo partner has lost interest. Thus, although the two personalities here are opposite in many ways, they can make for a rather complementary union…provided both are willing to invest the time to make it work. In essence, this combination has a fair chance at achieving longevity. However, in order for this to be achieved, Leo will need to overlook the Virgo tendency to be critical and the Virgo partner will have to take pride in the accomplishments of Leo. In addition, Leo must learn to respect the clever and alert mentality of his or her Virgo mate. If Virgo is willing to allow Leo to hog the limelight and refrain from being overly critical, then there may well be few barriers to a rather happy and successful union
